While I used to think Tigerlily Taylor and Adnan Abdelfattah were a problematic pair on90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, now that season 7 is over, I have a completely different opinion.Tigerlily was introduced as a 41-year-old womanfrom Texas who was fresh out of a divorce from her controlling ex-husband. Tigerlily spoke about how her ex didn’t even allow her to have friends and kept her trapped in the marriage which felt like a golden birdcage. Tigerlily looked forward to a fresh chapter in lifewith Adnan from Jordan.
However, Adnan also had his controlling side. He seemed to force his religion on Tigerlily and it irked fans. It got me wondering if Adnan really loved Tigerlily or if he was just a new, younger version of her controlling ex. Adnan was a boy, not a man. Tigerlily’s age difference with the 22-year-old Adnan was something she should have worried about. Could Tigerlily have done better than Adnan? Probably. However, looking back at their storyline, there are several things that prove to me whyTigerlily kept defending her relationship with Adnan.
Adnan Showed Commitment By Wanting To Marry Tigerlily Within Four Months
Adnan Proved He Wasn’t A Playboy
I feel the biggest “green flag” about Adnan was revealed in the first episode itself. Tigerlily and Adnan met on social media. Tigerlily and Adnan started talking on Instagram in June 2023 and by September 2023, they were married. Adnan did not play with Tigerlily’s feelings by promising her marriage and going on dates with her. He really loved Tigerlily and was willing to take the risk of marrying her without having ever seen her in person. Both of them were sure they weren’t catfishes. I love how they were so sure of their love for each other.
Adnan’s Family Accepted Tigerlily Despite The Age Gap
Adnan’s Family Is Open-Minded
In almost every storyline, there are family members that wish to stop cast members from getting married. They try to talk the cast member out of continuing the long-distance relationship with the Americans, sometimes left wondering if their partner is with them for a Green Card. Not only did Tigerlily not have any such family opposing her decision to marry Adnan, but she was also blessed with the sweetest in-laws. Adnan’s mom accepted Tigerlily as her own daughter despite the two-decade age gap. I didn’t expect Adnan’s family to be so open-minded when he came across as religious.
Tigerlily Trusted Adnan With Her Wealth
Tigerlily Did Not Wish To Complicate Matters With A Prenup
Tigerlily’s life coach had posed an important question to Tigerlily before the latter went to Jordan for the first time to marry Adnan. She asked Tigerlily if she had discussed finances with Adnan.“Why would I do that?” asked Tigerlily. She believed Adnan could have more money than her, and it would have been “weird” for her to try and protect her money from Adnan. Tigerlily was not worried about Adnan wanting to sit at home and not work. She didn’t even get a post-nup with Adnan in the end as he never gave power of attorney to his brother.
Tigerlily Chose To Respect Adnan’s Culture
Tigerlily Changed Her Dressing Style If Not Her Religion
Adnan expected his wife to dress a certain way. He made sureTigerlilywas not wearing any revealing clothes and even made her wear a swimming costume which was fully covered. Tigerlily had felt uncomfortable, and she was left wondering if she had made the right choice by marrying Adnan. However, it wasn’t something Adnan was doing to control Tigerlily. He was a religious person who was teaching his wife the ropes of the faith she was marrying into. Tigerlily was encouraged to be modest and keep herself covered while avoiding tight-fitting outfits.
20 Best Reality TV Shows Right Now
Reality TV is more popular than ever. With so many to choose from, here are some of the best reality TV shows to stream or watch right now.
Despite the initial hesitation, Tigerlily agreed to practice the art of dressing modestly. It also helped her pick her outfits after pregnancy, when she felt conscious about how she looked because of weight gain. Tigerlily has now modified her style accordingly where she still wears pieces from her old wardrobe while also keeping her hair covered. She’s revealed she still visits her hairstylist, Cruz, so it’s not like she doesn’t get dolled up when she wants. I’m in awe of how Tigerlily bravely defends her personal choices when critics constantly try to pull her down and judge her.
Tigerlily’s Kids Love Adnan
Adnan Has Proved He Can Be A Good Stepdad
Not only was Tigerlily older than Adnan by 19 years, but she was also a mom of two kids when Adnan met her. It didn’t stop Adnan from having a successful relationship with Tigerlily. He accepted the kids as his own despite his being closer in age to Finn and Roux than he was to Tigerlily. She revealed that Adnan got along just fine with her kids before he had even met her. Tigerlily’s children were FaceTiming with Adnan every day before Tigerlily even got married to him. Their beautiful, blended family now lives together in a cabin in Texas.
Adnan & Tigerlily Have The Most Successful B90 Season 7 Story
Adnan & Tigerlily Are Still Going Strong
I observed that while they weren’t the only couple that got married on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7, Tigerlily and Adnan were the only couple that was together in person at the Tell All. Niles Valentine and Matilda Nti were married, but they did not reunite after they got married due to financial reasons. Tigerlily and Adnan had been living together in America for a few months when they filmed the Tell All in October 2024 and even welcomed a son! Their family was complete with them having little to no issues compared to others.
Tigerlily & Adnan Are Building An Empire Together
They Own Multiple Businesses In America
Tigerlily was certain that Adnan was not someone who would laze around and stay at home after he moved to the U.S. It was never Adnan’s motive to come to America. He only wished to be with Tigerlily and their kids as soon as possible. Just like Tigerlily, Adnan is a man who hustles and enjoys growing his wealth even though he already has millions. The couple like to live lavishly, but they also believe in working hard to earn their luxury purchases. They have been operating multiple businesses together in America and doing a great job at it.
Adnan assists Tigerlily in her Neige shop. I feel it’s adorable how they even send little handwritten notes to customers who make purchases in their store. Then there is the remodeling business that Adnan is managing, proving he’s an independent man and Tigerlily can expect to take responsibility for his loved ones. The couple have faced some severe criticism after choosing to share their love story on90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysbut Tigerlily continues to ignore her naysayers while she builds her empire with Adnan.
